Paul has many skills, but writing/typing isn’t one of them. But since he is an important component of this poly life, Catie and I believe his viewpoint should be shared. However, if he were to type this out on his own, you wouldn’t see it until… well, probably never. So we’re going to do this in an interview style.
Question: How did it begin?
It began because I have certain things I wanted to do and try, but you (Lena) weren’t always receptive to those ideas. Plus, I was always looking to get laid. And you just couldn’t keep up with me. You said you needed help with that.
You told me about someone you worked with, who was as kinky as I was, and said that I should meet her. So I did. We started by hanging out and watching a movie, and then we ended up having sex. And that’s what we did. Hung out, watched movies, had sex. Nothing more, nothing less.
I don’t know what happened, but eventually, we liked each other more than just sex. It flourished from there. It became a relationship between Catie and I, then you and her, and then the three of us. It’s become more than just sex, because there are family events, graduations, school events, home renovations.
Question: Catie mentioned AOL in her post. How did it affect you?
Well, I was always up late at night while you were sleeping, so I would talk to her. Just about (shrugs) anything. She would listen and talk back, and give me her perspective on things. Just like I’d get your perspective about life in general. I guess that made us know each other more.
Question: The people want to now: How is the sex? Really?
I think it’s great! We don’t have sex as much as we used to, but that’s because we work opposite shifts, so we don’t see each other as much. When we do see each other, the sex is great. When we go on vacations, we get to have sexy-time, too. It’s harder when the kids are with us, but we can usually get the kids to leave and have some alone, sexy-time. With nipple clamps and wooden spoons. 😉
Question: If it’s not all about the sex, then is it worth it?
For us, I believe it is. Because the three of us work together to do everything that needs to be done. Because we work with each other’s strengths and weaknesses in order to accomplish everything. No matter what type of relationship you have, if you can’t work well together, it’s not going to work at all.
In other words, is it all about the sex? No, it’s not. It’s about life in general. And being with being with people who you love and love you back. And that’s what we have. we do a lot of things together. And we do things apart. And in the end, the three of us work well together, to live.
Aw… He’s such a mush. This is why we love him.