No More Toy… :(

Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦

Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First:  Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

Where Have We Been?

Hi there, Catie here! It's been a minute since we've written, hasn't it? You'd think with three of us around that keeping up with weekly blog posts would be doable. You'd think wrong. So what have we been up to since we last chatted? Lots of stuff. The political climate in our lovely country somehow… Continue reading Where Have We Been?

Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Everyone loves sex. At least, that's what I believe. If you don't like it, then it wasn't done right. I mean, how can you not enjoy the sensations of a climax? The tingle, the wave, the explosion of pleasure that shots through your body like nothing else. Bina would correct me and say that asexuals… Continue reading Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Surprise!

Someday, I will not care when a weekend is over. But that day, unfortunately, is not today. Friday night was a rough one for me, because that's when my sore throat started. Summer colds, gotta love 'em. My weekend was spent with drugs and a thermometer. And though I attempted to be productive and work… Continue reading Surprise!

Five On Whatever Day It Is..

Happy Thursday everyone! Catie here, I just have not been in the blogging mood over the last couple weeks. So, what's been going on around here? Lena had a book signing, I finally managed to bake a perfect cheesecake in my Instant Pot and Paul moved to a first-shift position so he's home every night… Continue reading Five On Whatever Day It Is..

We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Hi there, Catie here. Happy Thursday! I should have started this post Sunday night but there was a new episode of Bob's Burgers on so blogging got bumped. Priorities, people! Anyway back to the subject at hand. Paul, Lena and I had a fantastic offspring-free weekend away! We didn't go too far, just a couple… Continue reading We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Surprise!

Any and all relationships have surprise moments. When you're in a poly relationship, those moments happen a little more frequently. Our most recent "surprise!" moment was when Paul got home after work, and Catie & I told him that we were all going for a quick weekend getaway. That's right. Catie & I wanted to escape… Continue reading Surprise!