How much love can a heart hold?

Please let me begin by apologizing for the extra long post. Feel free to grab a cup of coffee, or other caffeinated beverage, to help you stay awake. Happy reading... Back in June of 2017, when Catie and I first started this blog, I wrote an entry, Love as a rainbow... where I tried to… Continue reading How much love can a heart hold?

Marriage…

Earlier this week, I had a dream that my BFF, we'll call her J, was getting married, and that Paul and I were also getting married. But J's BFF was very upset with me for intruding into her space and trying to steal her BFF. She was so angry, she grabbed my marriage license and… Continue reading Marriage…

Ch-Ch-Ch Change

Turn and face some hard talks... Hi there, Catie here!  It's time for good news/bad news.  The good news first: I got a new job!!! After 22 years at one company (that was slowly sucking my soul away,) I'm leaving and I couldn't be happier.  Hello, Lena here. We are so, so happy for her!… Continue reading Ch-Ch-Ch Change

We Didn’t Go Away This Weekend

Hi there, Catie here! Sad to report that we didn't go away again this weekend. As much as I had wanted to, scheduling and the weather just didn't cooperate. Hi, Lena here. Didn't I say last year was going to be the last year I dealt with snow?? Okay. This year, for sure. I had… Continue reading We Didn’t Go Away This Weekend

Happy 2020!!

Good morning everybody, Twenty-twenty has officially arrived, and I don't know about you, but I was ready for this new year. So much happened last year, some good, some not-so-good, and though I can't say it was bad, I have plans for this one, I'm very excited to get them started. Beginning January 1st--yup, I'm… Continue reading Happy 2020!!

Happy Birthday Paul & A Weekend Get Away

ACHOOO!!!  Hi there, Catie here! If you've been anywhere near us you would have heard a lot of the phase "Bless you" lately. Mostly because Paul and I have both been sick. It hasn't been fun, not even a little bit. And now that he and I are both feeling better, Lena and Bina seem… Continue reading Happy Birthday Paul & A Weekend Get Away

No More Toy… :(

Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦

Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First:  Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.