No More Toy… :(

Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… đŸ˜Ś

Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Everyone loves sex. At least, that's what I believe. If you don't like it, then it wasn't done right. I mean, how can you not enjoy the sensations of a climax? The tingle, the wave, the explosion of pleasure that shots through your body like nothing else. Bina would correct me and say that asexuals… Continue reading Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Hi there, Catie here. Happy Thursday! I should have started this post Sunday night but there was a new episode of Bob's Burgers on so blogging got bumped. Priorities, people! Anyway back to the subject at hand. Paul, Lena and I had a fantastic offspring-free weekend away! We didn't go too far, just a couple… Continue reading We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Surprise!

Any and all relationships have surprise moments. When you're in a poly relationship, those moments happen a little more frequently. Our most recent "surprise!" moment was when Paul got home after work, and Catie & I told him that we were all going for a quick weekend getaway. That's right. Catie & I wanted to escape… Continue reading Surprise!

2018!!

In case you were wondering, NYE wasn't bad, not at all. There was a lot of alcohol flowing, but they were happy drunks. And I do find happy drunks entertaining. One of those, "Sit back and enjoy" moments.  hahaha I had been worried about finding something that we could all chat about, but luckily, there… Continue reading 2018!!

Sunday Funnies: The Definition of…

Funny story... Do you guys remember myspace? Does anyone still use it? Well, once upon a time, many years ago, I did one of those Get to Know You quizzes and I passed it on. I had done a thousand of those and didn't think anything about it. The quiz was Only One Word. For example: "favorite… Continue reading Sunday Funnies: The Definition of…

Sunday Funnies w/ A Side of Wicked

Yesterday, the three of us went to see a good friend of mine, my writing mentor, for a book signing. But before leaving, Paul grabbed the mail, and one of the items was a small package. I should mention that this house gets packages all the time, (not kidding, it's - all the time!) so… Continue reading Sunday Funnies w/ A Side of Wicked