Black vs White: Polar opposites

When I think of polar opposites, I think of contradictory things: black/white, good/bad, tall/short. But when you think about it, that's actually a misnomer. Because both polar points on Earth are ice cold. Catie and I are quite different. More like polar ice and desert heat. She likes bright sun; I like rain. She likes… Continue reading Black vs White: Polar opposites

Sunday Funnies – Bickering

Weekends equal errands. That means fixing things, laundry, dinner ideas for the week, shopping lists, shopping at three stores-minimum, etc. This also leads to a slight blood-pressure increase. Paul is making a list with Catie for things we need in the kitchen, I'm in the bedroom. He calls for me, "Honey, can you come with… Continue reading Sunday Funnies – Bickering

A Real Collection of Partners?

It's a good question. In our poly world why is there only one man in this relationship? And why are there only three of us at all? Isn't the poly lifestyle all about many partners? Oh and hi there, Catie here. Should have said that first. First things first, yes absolutely for some poly is… Continue reading A Real Collection of Partners?

Monday Funnies – A collection of boyfriends

Short background. T, the youngest of our family, is a little quirky. She has autistic characteristics, but not enough to be called autistic.  She has ADHD characteristics, but not enough to be diagnosed with ADHD. She has this, that, and the other thing, but not enough for an official label. Whatever she is, she's high… Continue reading Monday Funnies – A collection of boyfriends

A Poly Reputation

It's funny what people think when they first find out you're in a poly relationship.I've never thought of myself as a sexual deviant. There are moments when I wish I had a more adventurous soul, but honestly? I like my comfort. Have I "done it" in the woods? Yes. Have I "done it" in a… Continue reading A Poly Reputation

Our first question!!

Ladies and gents, we have our first question! Someone was brave enough to type it and hit send. Many thanks J. The question (short version): How did you and Paul decide to have a non traditional relationship? Honestly, I've kinda been avoiding this one, simply because it started so long ago and I find it… Continue reading Our first question!!

All About the Sex? Part 2- Catie’s Perspective

Hi there, Catie here! Here to probably disappoint you. Or not, I don't know, keep reading to find out. I get two questions when I "come out" to people as poly the first is "How did you meet them?" and the second is really more of a statement "The sex must be constant and great, right?"… Continue reading All About the Sex? Part 2- Catie’s Perspective

Who are these people? Part Three

Hi there! Catie here!  I'm here to finish up the introductions, you can tell it's me because I didn't use any fancy French words in the title. We don't all write professionally some of us just like to blog because WORDS! All this writer talk is an excellent segway into introducing someone who is actually… Continue reading Who are these people? Part Three

It’s All About Sex! Lena’s perspective.

Admit it. This is the post you've been impatiently waiting for. 😉 We're not traditional in our relationship, so you know we're kinky in the bedroom. Whips, chains, handcuffs. Don't forget the orgies. 😜 Oh, yeah. How sexy is she? Can't you just bite her neck? Nibble gently, then trail sweet kisses lower... and lower...… Continue reading It’s All About Sex! Lena’s perspective.