Black vs White: Polar opposites

When I think of polar opposites, I think of contradictory things: black/white, good/bad, tall/short. But when you think about it, that's actually a misnomer. Because both polar points on Earth are ice cold. Catie and I are quite different. More like polar ice and desert heat. She likes bright sun; I like rain. She likes… Continue reading Black vs White: Polar opposites

A Real Collection of Partners?

It's a good question. In our poly world why is there only one man in this relationship? And why are there only three of us at all? Isn't the poly lifestyle all about many partners? Oh and hi there, Catie here. Should have said that first. First things first, yes absolutely for some poly is… Continue reading A Real Collection of Partners?

Monday Funnies – A collection of boyfriends

Short background. T, the youngest of our family, is a little quirky. She has autistic characteristics, but not enough to be called autistic.  She has ADHD characteristics, but not enough to be diagnosed with ADHD. She has this, that, and the other thing, but not enough for an official label. Whatever she is, she's high… Continue reading Monday Funnies – A collection of boyfriends

A Poly Reputation

It's funny what people think when they first find out you're in a poly relationship.I've never thought of myself as a sexual deviant. There are moments when I wish I had a more adventurous soul, but honestly? I like my comfort. Have I "done it" in the woods? Yes. Have I "done it" in a… Continue reading A Poly Reputation

A less-than-perfect world

So far, we've written about how well we work together, how wonderful our family is, how idealistic everything is. The truth is, it's not always sunshine, rainbows, and unicorns. Just like any other family, we bicker, we tiff, we argue. Communication breaks down, someone gets a little loud, and someone else gets the silent treatment.… Continue reading A less-than-perfect world