Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦
One if my favorite things to do is watch HGTV. If I'm alone and I need background noise, that's what I put on. And sometimes, Catie joins me. (And Paul cringes because he knows we'll be getting ideas--hahaha.) The shows I prefer best are the ones where they buy a beaten-up house and then remodel… Continue reading Doing Parenting Right (I hope…)
It's the annual "resolutions" time and I have several. hahaha Just kidding. Once upon a time, I tried, but I no longer bother. They just don't work for me. My goals are accomplished with steps and habits, not with resolutions. But hey, if they work for you, rock on! I am, however, one of those… Continue reading Happy New Year!
Perhaps it's rude to write a blog while sitting in a funeral home, but hey, it's what I do. I'm also the kind of person to make a joke and think of funny memories at a place like this. Someone has to brighten things up. (Insert eye roll here.) I know wakes are supposed to… Continue reading Birth, Death, In-Between
Sorry, folks. September has been quite a busy month for us, and it's only been a couple of weeks. T started high school at the end of August and Bina started college right after Labor Day. I had to put my Treasurer's hat on again for my writers group (our fiscal year begins in September)… Continue reading Sunday Not-So-Funnies
First, I should mention that Catie and I don't have letters after our names; no LPN, PhD, or MD. We are not what you would call "professionals." So everything we share is our personal experiences, thoughts, and opinions. Please consider this when you read our posts. Because this kind of life isn't for everyone. When… Continue reading Do you want it too?!
It's a good question. In our poly world why is there only one man in this relationship? And why are there only three of us at all? Isn't the poly lifestyle all about many partners? Oh and hi there, Catie here. Should have said that first. First things first, yes absolutely for some poly is… Continue reading A Real Collection of Partners?
It's funny what people think when they first find out you're in a poly relationship.I've never thought of myself as a sexual deviant. There are moments when I wish I had a more adventurous soul, but honestly? I like my comfort. Have I "done it" in the woods? Yes. Have I "done it" in a… Continue reading A Poly Reputation
How much love can one heart hold? Strange question, no? Certainly most individuals love their parents, their siblings. Okay, at least on some days. People love their extended family, right? Their close friends? Is there a max? Maybe just enough for a spouse? Maybe barely sufficient for children? Wait. Does the love a person… Continue reading Love as a rainbow…
Admit it. This is the post you've been impatiently waiting for. 😉 We're not traditional in our relationship, so you know we're kinky in the bedroom. Whips, chains, handcuffs. Don't forget the orgies. 😜 Oh, yeah. How sexy is she? Can't you just bite her neck? Nibble gently, then trail sweet kisses lower... and lower...… Continue reading It’s All About Sex! Lena’s perspective.