Earlier this week, I had a dream that my BFF, we'll call her J, was getting married, and that Paul and I were also getting married. But J's BFF was very upset with me for intruding into her space and trying to steal her BFF. She was so angry, she grabbed my marriage license and… Continue reading Marriage…
Hi There, Catie Here! How are all of you handling lockdown, quarantine, stay-at-home? I'm about like this: Don't get me wrong, I love our home. I just don't enjoy being either at home or at work all the time. Before anyone starts in on me, yes I know how very lucky I am. I live… Continue reading Every Day Is Exactly The Same (A Post In Which Catie Rants – A Lot)
Turn and face some hard talks... Hi there, Catie here! It's time for good news/bad news. The good news first: I got a new job!!! After 22 years at one company (that was slowly sucking my soul away,) I'm leaving and I couldn't be happier. Hello, Lena here. We are so, so happy for her!… Continue reading Ch-Ch-Ch Change
Good morning everybody, Twenty-twenty has officially arrived, and I don't know about you, but I was ready for this new year. So much happened last year, some good, some not-so-good, and though I can't say it was bad, I have plans for this one, I'm very excited to get them started. Beginning January 1st--yup, I'm… Continue reading Happy 2020!!
Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦
Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities
Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First: Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.
So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of
Hi there, Catie here! Welcome to another not well planned out blog post, I have many talents but carefully laid out posts isn't one of them. (Fine, I only have one and a half talents but work with me, k?) Lena, Paul and I went to beautiful (but cold) York, Maine this past weekend and… Continue reading Weekends Away Are Important
Hi there, Catie here! It's been a minute since we've written, hasn't it? You'd think with three of us around that keeping up with weekly blog posts would be doable. You'd think wrong. So what have we been up to since we last chatted? Lots of stuff. The political climate in our lovely country somehow… Continue reading Where Have We Been?