Ch-Ch-Ch Change

Turn and face some hard talks... Hi there, Catie here!  It's time for good news/bad news.  The good news first: I got a new job!!! After 22 years at one company (that was slowly sucking my soul away,) I'm leaving and I couldn't be happier.  Hello, Lena here. We are so, so happy for her!… Continue reading Ch-Ch-Ch Change

Happy 2020!!

Good morning everybody, Twenty-twenty has officially arrived, and I don't know about you, but I was ready for this new year. So much happened last year, some good, some not-so-good, and though I can't say it was bad, I have plans for this one, I'm very excited to get them started. Beginning January 1st--yup, I'm… Continue reading Happy 2020!!

No More Toy… :(

Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦

Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First:  Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

Weekends Away Are Important

Hi there, Catie here! Welcome to another not well planned out blog post, I have many talents but carefully laid out posts isn't one of them. (Fine, I only have one and a half talents but work with me, k?) Lena, Paul and I went to beautiful (but cold) York, Maine this past weekend and… Continue reading Weekends Away Are Important

Where Have We Been?

Hi there, Catie here! It's been a minute since we've written, hasn't it? You'd think with three of us around that keeping up with weekly blog posts would be doable. You'd think wrong. So what have we been up to since we last chatted? Lots of stuff. The political climate in our lovely country somehow… Continue reading Where Have We Been?

Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Everyone loves sex. At least, that's what I believe. If you don't like it, then it wasn't done right. I mean, how can you not enjoy the sensations of a climax? The tingle, the wave, the explosion of pleasure that shots through your body like nothing else. Bina would correct me and say that asexuals… Continue reading Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Surprise!

Someday, I will not care when a weekend is over. But that day, unfortunately, is not today. Friday night was a rough one for me, because that's when my sore throat started. Summer colds, gotta love 'em. My weekend was spent with drugs and a thermometer. And though I attempted to be productive and work… Continue reading Surprise!