Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… 😦
Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities
Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First: Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.
So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of
One if my favorite things to do is watch HGTV. If I'm alone and I need background noise, that's what I put on. And sometimes, Catie joins me. (And Paul cringes because he knows we'll be getting ideas--hahaha.) The shows I prefer best are the ones where they buy a beaten-up house and then remodel… Continue reading Doing Parenting Right (I hope…)
Everyone loves sex. At least, that's what I believe. If you don't like it, then it wasn't done right. I mean, how can you not enjoy the sensations of a climax? The tingle, the wave, the explosion of pleasure that shots through your body like nothing else. Bina would correct me and say that asexuals… Continue reading Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.
Hi There, Catie here! It's that day of the week again, blogging day! Guess what guys? We have a new kitchen sink!!! Exciting, right? Its a big, deep, shiny single basin number that makes me very happy. Getting it installed was far from easy and not without a few surprises but so worth it. Yes I… Continue reading New Kitchen Sink! & Five On Friday
Hi there, Catie here. Happy Thursday! I should have started this post Sunday night but there was a new episode of Bob's Burgers on so blogging got bumped. Priorities, people! Anyway back to the subject at hand. Paul, Lena and I had a fantastic offspring-free weekend away! We didn't go too far, just a couple… Continue reading We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!
Any and all relationships have surprise moments. When you're in a poly relationship, those moments happen a little more frequently. Our most recent "surprise!" moment was when Paul got home after work, and Catie & I told him that we were all going for a quick weekend getaway. That's right. Catie & I wanted to escape… Continue reading Surprise!
Funny story... Do you guys remember myspace? Does anyone still use it? Well, once upon a time, many years ago, I did one of those Get to Know You quizzes and I passed it on. I had done a thousand of those and didn't think anything about it. The quiz was Only One Word. For example: "favorite… Continue reading Sunday Funnies: The Definition of…