No More Toy… :(

Catie and I started this blog to share what we learn in our poly life, and though I'm not happy about this post, I think it's important that I put it out there. It was a lesson for me; maybe it'll be beneficial to some of you. So... I'm not sure if I'm a great… Continue reading No More Toy… đŸ˜Ś

Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Fair warning, dear reader, the below is almost as long as a novel, but it'll be an interesting read. Grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy the chaos... Approximately two weeks ago, D (the sort-of-boy-toy, remember him?) asked if I would be interested in going with him and his kids to a sort-of-nearby amusement part… Continue reading Bad Decisions, Chaos and Calamities

Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Hi there, Catie here! How's everyone doing out in internet land? We're mostly good. I'll be honest it's been a mixed bag for me over the past couple weeks. Good News First:  Mr. Paul got a new job!!!!! Yessss!!!! We all knew it wouldn't take him long to find a new job once he started… Continue reading Sunshine and Rainbows – Only Sometimes It’s Not.

Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

So... I went out and got myself a new man-toy. Sort of. D is someone I've known for many years. I first met him when he was my friend's beau, over a decade ago. The four of us, D and J (the friend), and Paul and I would hang out, play cards, etc, and we'd… Continue reading Our (Slightly) Expanded Circle… Sort of

Doing Parenting Right (I hope…)

One if my favorite things to do is watch HGTV. If I'm alone and I need background noise, that's what I put on. And sometimes, Catie joins me. (And Paul cringes because he knows we'll be getting ideas--hahaha.) The shows I prefer best are the ones where they buy a beaten-up house and then remodel… Continue reading Doing Parenting Right (I hope…)

Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

Everyone loves sex. At least, that's what I believe. If you don't like it, then it wasn't done right. I mean, how can you not enjoy the sensations of a climax? The tingle, the wave, the explosion of pleasure that shots through your body like nothing else. Bina would correct me and say that asexuals… Continue reading Sex: Good. Sex Trolls: Bad.

New Kitchen Sink! & Five On Friday

Hi There, Catie here! It's that day of the week again, blogging day! Guess what guys? We have a new kitchen sink!!! Exciting, right? Its a big, deep, shiny single basin number that makes me very happy.  Getting it installed was far from easy and not without a few surprises but so worth it. Yes I… Continue reading New Kitchen Sink! & Five On Friday

We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Hi there, Catie here. Happy Thursday! I should have started this post Sunday night but there was a new episode of Bob's Burgers on so blogging got bumped. Priorities, people! Anyway back to the subject at hand. Paul, Lena and I had a fantastic offspring-free weekend away! We didn't go too far, just a couple… Continue reading We Love Thruple-Only Get Aways!

Surprise!

Any and all relationships have surprise moments. When you're in a poly relationship, those moments happen a little more frequently. Our most recent "surprise!" moment was when Paul got home after work, and Catie & I told him that we were all going for a quick weekend getaway. That's right. Catie & I wanted to escape… Continue reading Surprise!

Sunday Funnies: The Definition of…

Funny story... Do you guys remember myspace? Does anyone still use it? Well, once upon a time, many years ago, I did one of those Get to Know You quizzes and I passed it on. I had done a thousand of those and didn't think anything about it. The quiz was Only One Word. For example: "favorite… Continue reading Sunday Funnies: The Definition of…